This question has arisen since I started friendships with many people from other countries when I was a GraSPP student. For example, when we went drinking, Japanese culture is alway the topic. Since they are in Todai and Tokyo, they don't know what usual Japanese seem.
However, when I watched a famous movie by Studio Ghibli, I found that actually I myself don't know what Japanese people are precisely. Even though I was brought up in Fukui, a countryside, my family belonged to the middle-class there and we lived in the centre of Fukui Prefecture.(actually it took just 5 mins walk to the prefecture headquarter office from my home.) And I recalled my childhood in Fukui with keen nostalgia.
Of course, there is no "typical Japanese (family)." This is just an idealized existence that are only in our imagination. However, I believe that I can categorize Japanese people into some(if a lot) typical groups.
The anime movie, "おもひでぽろぽろ(1991)" describes two typical lives of Japanese people. The one is about an experience of working holiday at a countryside of Yamagata of a woman named Taeko in 1982 (a bit old). She is 27 years old, unmarried and woking for a company. The other story is about her childhood in 1966. The old Taeko decides to take trip to visit her elder sisters-in-law in the rural countryside to help with the safflower harvest and get away from city life. This experience reminds her of the childhood in Tokyo, which made the young Taeko desire to take holidays outside Tokyo. (Her family seems not to have relatives who live in a rural city until her sister got married.)
This movie reminded me of two things: a rural life; the days of my childhood, which I almost forgot. Speaking of a rural life, I don't know well about it. I had relatives who lived in a very rural place, but I have nerver joined cropping or harvest. They lived in a large house with as large a warehouse. They possessed some fields.Again, I couldn't image what their life was like.
On the other hand, Taeko's story of her childhood clearly illustrates children's life in elementary schools in Japan, except for TV games or desktop or laptop PCs. My life in elementary or junior-high school is ordinal one and similar to Takeko's. In the age of 25, now I remember the mundane, sometimes foolish, but precious time which I can never experience again. Alas,...
In sum, I partly know typical Japanese experience like a life in school. On the other hand, I don't know what the very rural life is like. I am not sure I will be able to get accustomed to rural life, but I want to lead such a life someday.